Common Sense

A man does not define the women he has been with.
He doesn't control their smile, their joy, all that life has blessed them with.
Only the women themselves have the power to control those things,
Yes Love hurts and Betrayal stings,
But really who said life was pain free?
I am pretty sure it was not me.

All joking aside, why blame a man for your anger,
When it's you turning yourself into this complete stranger?
Doing all this craziness you normally wouldn't do,
Then when asked, you just say you're doing you.
So you doing you turns you into Two?
You can call me a Liar, but your actions proves it True.

Yes a breakup can cause a Grown Woman to become weak,
But being childish? That's something only little girls seek.
So before you act upon that Evil thought,
Ask yourself is that the way you were Taught.
You were taught to be this Childish Woman,
Who would do these things over One Man?

I would think you were taught to be strong,
It doesn't matter if you feel you were done wrong,
You were taught to be the best that you can be,
To be a Grown Woman for everyone to see,
Not to let something so simple get you down,
And turn you into this farce of a Clown.

So before you blame a man for your next action,
Look into the Mirror for that satisfaction.
And before you call yourself something, like Mature,
Stop doing things so Immature.
Don't call yourself a Grown Woman for sure,
Without knowing exactly what it stands for.